Awww, why'd you have to go and do that?
While I am a rule follower in my daily life, when it comes to twitter I don't follow too many rules.
When I first started tweeting, there were rules such as only tweet seven times day, don't tweet photos of your breakfast (lunch, dinner, etc), and there was the whole Follow Friday thing.
I love to tweet. And some days, I tweet a lot more than I do on others but I never feel like I'm tweeting too much. If you think I tweet too much, you should probably follow some more people so you don't think that anymore.
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When I tweet photos of my food guess what happens? They are the most viewed photos of any that I tweet. This is ALWAYS the case. It turns out, people really do care what I eat or at least they are interested in seeing photos of it.
Back in my early twitter days, my friend
@PatrickAllmond
, posted a blog about the whole Follow Friday meme. It was really a great post that, sadly, he has taken down and can't find because I'd love to share it with you. It was the post that made me rarely ever participate in #FF or #FollowFriday.
Mostly, I was afraid of missing someone and hurting their feelings by not mentioning them on #FF. But Patrick's blog post gave me something rational to direct people to when I needed an explanation.
Now people probably just think I'm loopy. And they're probably right.
I think people are kind of getting away from doing the #FF thing with just lists of twitter handles and are gravitating more towards #FF mentions such as this one:
This kind of #FF could actually be helpful to a new person on twitter for their very first Friday and wondering who to follow. I wonder how many people who start twitter on a Friday and just see tweet after tweet after tweet full of nothing but twitter handles quit the day they start?
Anyway, my point is that since twitter is all about establishing relationship, I don't follow all those rules. I just go with the flow.
However, I do have one twitter rule. And it is hard and fast and if you break this rule I will unfollow you.
I love new followers. I love the chance to get to know and interact with a new friend. But if I follow you and you direct message me to Like your facebook page, our relationship will be cut short. As in immediately.
I am sad about that. I think, "awwww why'd you have to go and do that?" But unfollow you I will.
As I go through my days on twitter, I see people openly asking to join them on facebook. This doesn't bother me. But the immediate auto-reply direct message just does me in.
So....I really want to get to know you on twitter. Please don't ask me to like your facebook page in a direct message. :-)
Lauri is the trophy wife of David Rottmayer. She enjoys reading, traveling, and spending time with her best friend (David). They live with "Boo Boo the Wonder Dog" in Oklahoma. Lauri and David have recently become grandparents to their amazing glambaby, Aniston. They met while serving in the United State Marine Corps and will soon be celebrating their 33rd Anniversary. Lauri can also be found on Twitter, her blog, and her website.